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Update…

In December I announced that I was having issues with depression and had full intentions of working through it using this website. But then I didn’t. The shitty thing about depression, besides literally everything, is feeling like what you have to say doesn’t matter to anyone else and all you’re doing is annoying or inconveniencing them. And that may be...

Open Letter to my Former Best-Friend

Dear Former Best Friend,  (I won’t be saying names for obvious reasons) I’ve decided we aren’t friends anymore, because we simply aren’t. I’m sure you’re confused and unsure of what happened. I honestly think you’re blind to it. Friendship, just like any relationship is a two way street. And ours just wasn’t anymore. You’re never there when I need you...

The Little Things

Finding the motivation to do anything has been ridiculously difficult for me as of late, but my intense need to give my little love an amazing and memorable holiday season has managed to win every time my mind battles between wanting to hide in bed and wanting to do something that would require the effort it takes to make everything...

The Truth

I’ll be honest, I’ve been putting this post off for about a week. The whole point of starting this website was to work through issues and connect with others, and while I’ve been doing that, I’ve also been lying to myself and maybe to everyone else, though I’m sure others saw it long before I did, as it often goes. ...

In Which I Ramble

Today’s post is a little different than the other ones. Sometimes in order for me to work things out for myself or get it out of my head, I need to just write. There is no advice or lesson in this, just my rambling/venting, and it may be a bit confusing and have no conclusion. I apologize in advance. Part...

When the Lovin’ Ain’t Easy

I posted this on my personal Facebook page a few months ago, but it has been with me ever since and I feel like this is something we can all relate to. I saw this picture whilst I was idly scrolling through my feed and I wasn’t going to post it but it really stuck with me. “Loving me isn’t...

Sick of Your S***!

A couple of weeks ago, there was a cute, little post going around on Facebook, telling parents to ask their children a series of questions and write down their responses. Super fun, right? That’s not sarcasm, it actually was really fun hearing what my daughter had to say. Until we got to one question, “What makes you sad?” Without skipping...

Adult Friendships

I don’t know about anyone else, but I’ve noticed as I’ve gotten older that making friends has become increasingly difficult. Unless you’re in school or have a job that doesn’t require you to be at home, making friends elsewhere is a huge pain in the ass. As a stay-at-home parent, it seems almost impossible to meet people and connect. And...